Our great friend and a most wonderful woman, Michele Burk, passed away over the weekend Summer turns into Fall.
Shock and grief have found its way into so many lives with the terrible news.
Michele was found in her bed by two of her closest friends (which she had so many of) early Saturday evening.
Telephone calls and Emails flooded communication lines as the sad news continued to spread.
As we move through the grieving processes for ourselves and others, it is hope that we will be able to someday celebrate such a remarkable person and the inspiration she provided to all who knew her.
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The memorial service for Michele has been scheduled.
Saturday October 25, 2008
NOON
Forest Lawn Memorial Chapel
1500 E. San AntonioLong Beach, CA 90807
Phone: 1-800-204-3131
Email: lbmc@forestlawn.com
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There are plans for a gathering of friends after the memorial service and I will post that event when it becomes confirmed.
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To consider Michele as being remarkable is not even the tip of the top of the iceberg.
Her talents did not match her size, they overwhelmed it.
Her ability to give to others without needing honoring, thanks, or other considerations is something we all must try to continue to do in her place.
We all are better people for knowing, learning from, and loving Michele.
And we all have stories to tell.
Three incredible women, Barbara Dragich, Michele Burk, and Janice Hahn did something that could not be done.
They led the way to accomplish a feat that was impossible from the start, but that did not stop them.
When the time comes that the corner of 20th Street and Walker Avenue in San Pedro is complete with single-family homes on all four corners, you will view just one legacy of these three great women.
What you will not find is a multi-story apartment of condo structure and you have Michele, Barbara, and Janice to thank for spearheading the effort that was considered undoable.
The Story of the "Q" Condition is one of the latter stories in a life filled with volumes of items and tidbits that Michele was involved with.
Others will have story after story on Michele's tenure with the San Pedro High School's Lady Boosters' Organization.
Michele was a past President of that group, having served several terms but not having to serve a term as a parent.
Well, that last sentence is not quite true.
Chuy, her chow-chow could have a book written just about himself.
Pretty Boy, Michele's Siamese cat was a wonderful companion and 'kid' to Michele, too.
Michele was the reunion rock for "The Mystics" San Pedro High School Class of 1972.
Her organizational skills allowed her to accomplish so many successful reunions for the largest class ever to graduate from San Pedro High School. (1053-graduates)
Michele was also the "co-finder"/"disorganizer" every year of The Gathering of "The Crowd" and Friends Picnic. For the picnic held last August, she greeted alumni from a booth inside "Taste in San Pedro" and provided everyone who asked, answers to some of the most obscure questions about San Pedro High School and its alumni that could be asked.
Watching Michele laugh and enjoy something was a pure treat. She liked funny things and Terri and I loved here smile.
Michele was "aunt" to our Cookie and Cookie relished every moment she spent with Michele. (Cookie also enjoyed the treats Michele would bring with her.)
Tributes will be pouring in for Michele. I was glad that she felt good about her work with the Vista Del Oro Neighbors Against Condos.
Michele didn't do things for thank yous and gratitude, but when she felt she was appreciated by her works, she was very pleased.
Boy, she sure had quite a lot of works going on and completed.
Other sides of Michele were also appreciated by those who loved her.
Yes, she could be caustic at times, but that was Michele and she was very strong in her convictions and beliefs.....and she wasn't afraid to mention them.
We were never successful in swaying Michele away from being a Republican. It's not that we didn't try, but we were faced with a force in Michele that we know could not be changed.
I first met Michele during a shared Comparative Religion class at S.P.H.S.. Michele was a junior and I was a sophomore.
We were good acquaintances during the two years together at S.P.H.S. and I always remembered her from those days.
Michele was a facilitator without comparison. If something needed doing, she did it.
If Michele didn't know much about a task she was taking on, she dove into learning about being the best she could possibly be at dealing with the task.
I don't know if Michele volunteered or was volunteered so much of the time. Folks knew that if they needed some guidance, friendship, or help, going to Michele was a great first step.
Michele was recruited for several things (like Lady Boosters') because of her gifts of knowledge, administration, her helpfulness, and her very high intelligence.
It was not really amazing that the first phone call I answered on Sunday morning came from a classmate of Michele's who did not see eye to eye with Michele, much of the time.
For me, Michele was a buddy, pal, mentor, friend, and confidant. Terri and I thought of her as a great friend and someone who we felt very close to.
There is a whole group of true friends of Michele's who knew of her health issues and relished the time we had with her, which turned out to be too short of time.
A great lady, powerful woman, true friend, and incredibly giving person has entered into our memories, where she will stay forever.
Shock and grief have found its way into so many lives with the terrible news.
Michele was found in her bed by two of her closest friends (which she had so many of) early Saturday evening.
Telephone calls and Emails flooded communication lines as the sad news continued to spread.
As we move through the grieving processes for ourselves and others, it is hope that we will be able to someday celebrate such a remarkable person and the inspiration she provided to all who knew her.
---------------------------------------------------------------
The memorial service for Michele has been scheduled.
Saturday October 25, 2008
NOON
Forest Lawn Memorial Chapel
1500 E. San AntonioLong Beach, CA 90807
Phone: 1-800-204-3131
Email: lbmc@forestlawn.com
-----------------------------------------------------------
There are plans for a gathering of friends after the memorial service and I will post that event when it becomes confirmed.
-----------------------------------------------------------
To consider Michele as being remarkable is not even the tip of the top of the iceberg.
Her talents did not match her size, they overwhelmed it.
Her ability to give to others without needing honoring, thanks, or other considerations is something we all must try to continue to do in her place.
We all are better people for knowing, learning from, and loving Michele.
And we all have stories to tell.
Three incredible women, Barbara Dragich, Michele Burk, and Janice Hahn did something that could not be done.
They led the way to accomplish a feat that was impossible from the start, but that did not stop them.
When the time comes that the corner of 20th Street and Walker Avenue in San Pedro is complete with single-family homes on all four corners, you will view just one legacy of these three great women.
What you will not find is a multi-story apartment of condo structure and you have Michele, Barbara, and Janice to thank for spearheading the effort that was considered undoable.
The Story of the "Q" Condition is one of the latter stories in a life filled with volumes of items and tidbits that Michele was involved with.
Others will have story after story on Michele's tenure with the San Pedro High School's Lady Boosters' Organization.
Michele was a past President of that group, having served several terms but not having to serve a term as a parent.
Well, that last sentence is not quite true.
Chuy, her chow-chow could have a book written just about himself.
Pretty Boy, Michele's Siamese cat was a wonderful companion and 'kid' to Michele, too.
Michele was the reunion rock for "The Mystics" San Pedro High School Class of 1972.
Her organizational skills allowed her to accomplish so many successful reunions for the largest class ever to graduate from San Pedro High School. (1053-graduates)
Michele was also the "co-finder"/"disorganizer" every year of The Gathering of "The Crowd" and Friends Picnic. For the picnic held last August, she greeted alumni from a booth inside "Taste in San Pedro" and provided everyone who asked, answers to some of the most obscure questions about San Pedro High School and its alumni that could be asked.
Watching Michele laugh and enjoy something was a pure treat. She liked funny things and Terri and I loved here smile.
Michele was "aunt" to our Cookie and Cookie relished every moment she spent with Michele. (Cookie also enjoyed the treats Michele would bring with her.)
Tributes will be pouring in for Michele. I was glad that she felt good about her work with the Vista Del Oro Neighbors Against Condos.
Michele didn't do things for thank yous and gratitude, but when she felt she was appreciated by her works, she was very pleased.
Boy, she sure had quite a lot of works going on and completed.
Other sides of Michele were also appreciated by those who loved her.
Yes, she could be caustic at times, but that was Michele and she was very strong in her convictions and beliefs.....and she wasn't afraid to mention them.
We were never successful in swaying Michele away from being a Republican. It's not that we didn't try, but we were faced with a force in Michele that we know could not be changed.
I first met Michele during a shared Comparative Religion class at S.P.H.S.. Michele was a junior and I was a sophomore.
We were good acquaintances during the two years together at S.P.H.S. and I always remembered her from those days.
Michele was a facilitator without comparison. If something needed doing, she did it.
If Michele didn't know much about a task she was taking on, she dove into learning about being the best she could possibly be at dealing with the task.
I don't know if Michele volunteered or was volunteered so much of the time. Folks knew that if they needed some guidance, friendship, or help, going to Michele was a great first step.
Michele was recruited for several things (like Lady Boosters') because of her gifts of knowledge, administration, her helpfulness, and her very high intelligence.
It was not really amazing that the first phone call I answered on Sunday morning came from a classmate of Michele's who did not see eye to eye with Michele, much of the time.
For me, Michele was a buddy, pal, mentor, friend, and confidant. Terri and I thought of her as a great friend and someone who we felt very close to.
There is a whole group of true friends of Michele's who knew of her health issues and relished the time we had with her, which turned out to be too short of time.
A great lady, powerful woman, true friend, and incredibly giving person has entered into our memories, where she will stay forever.